从golden上看到后转来的,是以Yuna和她妈妈为例,写的妈妈以子女的成功为自己的成功的一些事情。
Mother's Love Becomes Obsession for Some South Koreans
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/06/10/world/asia/10iht-skater.html?_r=2&ref=global-home
Yuna的妈妈说的:
“I majored in Yu-na,” Ms. Park wrote in a memoir that has become a best-seller. “For Yu-na, I studied harder than when I was in school. I devoted myself to her more passionately than when I was in love.”
Yuna对妈妈逼她好好训练时的态度
Ms. Kim says she felt the pressure, even while she credits it for her achievements. “When I saw other skaters chatting and goofing among themselves, I wanted to do that too, mingling with other kids freely,” she said in an interview. “But I couldn’t, because my mother was always there to maintain discipline. But it helped me focus on training.”
结尾,被问及是否会让自己的女儿也从事滑冰,Yuna的回答非常耐人寻味。
“I wouldn’t let my daughter take up figure skating,” she said, when asked whether she would follow her own mother’s path. “I know how hard this life is.” |